Could love be a problem? For me, now, yes, it is a problem. Some one can not get ride of loving me and want to come to visit me, it is not supposed to be like this. I have done nothing that should lead it to get this situation, at least I think so. I just taught her English on the net via UC, a kind of instant message communicating software, and that happen months ago when I was in South Africa.
But now, when I got back to China, and met her again, she got so excited and said that she loved me.
Since she told me she loved, we have met several time on net. And each time I tried my best to lead her away from the topic of loving or liking of me, and carried on the English teaching. That was I most want to do to her on the net.
Why could it be like this? Jane once said that the attitude that I took when I treated women online was not correct, it should be according to the principle of "WHIT COURTESY, BE RESTRAINED ("有礼有节", I think it should be quoted from "有理，有利，有节"，and be modified)".
Jane might be right, the courtesy that I showed to the women when I was with them online should be restrained, controlled. But how could I do it? what should it be like?
Thursday, April 26, 2007
Could Love Be A Problem?
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I tried to write something about LOVE, the problem I met, last moth, but, failed to finish it.
Post it here given an end hastily without changing the post date.
maybe it is a cruel suggestion.but whu do u must keep in touch with her?for teaching?i dont think it is necessary.
Keep in touth? If you think that keep someone in the Friend List in QQ is keep her or him in touch, OK, let's keep in touch.
I have no purpose to keep her in the List, even to teach, that is not the purpose either. Just normal communication via QQ, not special.
Jane, don't you have any one kept in you List, but you have no idea why you keep it there? Tell me about it.
having no reason to keep someone in the QQ list is normal.but if sb. focusing on the love that i didnt want,i will cancel her from the list immediately。this is my way,maybe it is rude .
Just do it in ur way.
Yes, it is so easy to get rid of the trouble by deleting her entry from my list,but, I think it is too cruel. Maybe you will say I am already cruel, but I still don't want to treat it in that way. OK, let's forget about it.
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